Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Sex and the Curvy Girl - A Journey from Insecure to Insatiable



Way back when.. in a Galaxy Far, Far away there lived a super foxy curvy girl who did not see the lovely lady lumps she had been bestowed with as a most treasured gift from the Gods.. 
In fact, this young woman, with all the right curves in all the right places, could not connect with the thought of herself as a sexually attractive being... and really how could she??
There were no Voluptuous Vixens of that time...  No Full Blossom Magazine to Showcase our Blooming Beauty.. Nowhere did there openly exist curvy love and acceptance she could look to for inspiration. Representation of the full figure in the media, reassuring her that her curves were the ultimate tool of seduction, did not exist! It was more than apparent during this time, sexy was solely reserved for the Victoria Secret Models and barely there actresses. With the confidence gap building within, she found it increasingly harder to attract men...... or shall I say the right type of man, which lead her to many-a-heartbreak and even lower esteem...

Alright, Alright... I'm just gonna say it...  that girl was me. ;)
In the beginning, with little to no discretion, I found myself with men who weren't for me simply because I accepted less than I deserved. I didn't demand respect and inturn they walked all over me. These men would ogle over the girls that I tried so desperately to be yet my physique just wasn't built to accommodate which in turn made me feel inadequate because, well 'why doesn't he look at me like that??'. I hadn't yet grasped that the love I sought after would only come after seeking  it from within.. loving all of All of Me!  Every Ounce, Every Pound, Every Roll, Every Jiggle...  After a long tumultuous relationship I decided to break free when I realized time waits for NO ONE.. I needed to feel, see and do more than what I had been doing. I needed to find a love that was all mine, came naturally and I didn't have to fight too much for.



In order to start enjoying every aspect of my body, I began the healing process from the inside out. I would force myself to stand naked in front of the mirror, (initially torturous) reciting daily affirmations to recondition my thought patterns of self-hate into Love, Acceptance, and Respect. I started developing my mind through reading and research, focusing on the things I loved, not just sex but spiritual interests as well. I taught myself about the power of cognitive therapy so I could begin to understand and recondition the root of all my insecurities.  Knowledge of self is Ultimate power. Again, it's what you exude from within that determines how people will respond to and treat you. The mind is a great tool, especially when it comes to physical sex and sexual energy.





Before I knew it I started to really see and believe all these wonderful words I had been breathing. I enjoyed the way my breast would jiggle instead of critiquing their firmness.  I enjoyed how rounded they were while laying on my back. The arch my back made when I poked out my bottom.   I began thinking of all the fun times to be had with someone special, envisioning them enjoying my body as much as I would theirs. Visualization is very important in achieving any goal you set for yourself..

April Flores From Bizarre Magazine

 I began looking into lingerie, toys, positions, various kinks and sought a deeper understanding of the benefits healthy sexual indulgences can create. Exploring my sexuality by myself initially led to better understanding what I liked & what I didn't... what positions I could do and which I would have to work at contorting into and ultimately what positions made me feel sexiest!! Once I began connecting my physical perceptions to a higher degree of self-acceptance all aspects of my life climaxed to heightened levels of satisfaction previously unattainable due to a deep routed internal block.  Self-education and exploration had really paid off!!! I was having some of the most Xplosive sex EVER!! Where inhibitions were forbidden and in turn, I was worshiped.. My body, my mind and my soul all because of the effort I put into Loving Me!!


Ever had amazing Sex with someone and later people tell you that you have a certain glow about you? That's because you are releasing the feels of Oxytocin. The power of touch releases this chemical, allowing for openness and a deeper connection with your partner all relating to the idea that what happens internally is reflected outwardly.

Sex really is that powerful and  because of all the many GREAT benefits when done safely we have to begin to change the dialogue surrounding women who enjoy their sexuality. Sex is an important aspect of ones overall physical and mental well-being. We already know it reduces stress levels and if done right can provide the cardio your heart needs to stay healthy. So my plush size divas, Why deprive yourself of a fabulous sex life because of insecurities or shame.. all of which can be solved if not at the very least worked on with some patience, deep reflection and understanding of self. Why settle for the wrong man who won't uplift you or who doesn't accept you for the Buxom Betty you truly are??


Work on your physique If you're not happy FOR YOU,  engage your mind (which I highly recommend)  simply because it allows you to be content with WHO YOU ARE and not WHAT you look like. Liven up your libido. Superficialities can limit us all as humans and yea we all have our preferences, there is nothing wrong with that but whatever you do, don't let any level of shame deny what makes you YOU!

 We are so lucky to be alive, to be able to love that it is mind boggling  so many people are jaded and continue these vicious cycles of shaming whether it be Slut Shaming or Body Shaming there are way too many real world issues to focus on rather than what you choose to do with your body... Safety and mutual Respect are really all that is needed  finding a true partnership. In the past, I have struggled with this and I have learned to no longer settle just for the sake of saying I have someone in my life. Life is for the LIVING.  Seek people who will raise your spirits, and bring you to higher levels of consciousness. Look for this in all relationship types, yes Friends are included. These are the people you turn to for support so why settle for someone who sees you as less than who you are? YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL and YOU deserve all a beautiful life has in store... and yes that includes the God Given Right to have Mind Blowing Sex!! (Again and most importantly Safely and respectfully, of course)

Carpe Diem!!

Tuesday, October 22, 2013

B Pretty Inc.. The Breast Cancer Awareness Curvy Fashion Experience



This is the month where we break out our pink laces, securely tie our most supportive pair of sneakers and show our unified strength in numbers by walking, running or cycling for the Mothers, Daughters, Sisters, Grandmothers, Tia's, Co-workers, Friends and yes men too who have been affected by Breast Cancer.  In October, we are all involved in the movement to end losing another life to Breast Cancer as it affects EVERYONE. On behalf of MNS Media and Full Blossom Magazine I arrived to cover this fabulous fashion experience...
 
We don't always have to step out on the concrete to contribute our time towards making change.. There are plenty of runways to stomp out which are dedicating their shows to the cause. This past weekend was no exception as the B Pretty Inc. company founded by Blanche Will hosted their Breast Cancer Awareness Curvy Fashion Show in probably my favorite borough (next to my hometown The Bronx Of course) BROOKLYN!!!!
 
 Special Guest of the evening MNS Media Charity Lynette of Curvy Chick Fitness and I headed out in support for the cause as well as for our model sis and host of the evening, the beautiful Malinda 'Yum Yum' Bell whose sultry voice and presence was matched by a sheer all black dressed with a long slit complimenting Yum Yum's delicious thighs. Yum Yum was a FEnomenal Host for this event.

Charity Lynette of Curvy Chick Fitness


This amazingly striking piece worn by Yum Yum was designed by none other than B. Pretty Inc!


The night was already starting off on a fierce note as nothing but ferociousness was allowed in the Bat Haus event space that night while B. Pretty Inc in association with The Breast Cancer Charities of America raised awareness and funds in memorandum of those whom we've lost to Breast Cancer, those who are SURVIVORS and for the 1 in 8 women who are diagnosed yearly and will have to maintain the FIGHT for survival.

Showing support, The Red Carpet was on fire with the Beautiful, Belizean Flame, CEO of "Nibble on This" Caterers.. Stay tuned for more info on this Siren Chef and what the MNS Media Family has in store for Belizeans Tasty Treats!!
Belizean Flame Shredding the Red Carpet
 
 
Belizean Flame and Hostess Yum Yum



B Pretty Inc is a high-end curvy woman apparel brand which caters to the curvy woman sizes 8 plus.

B. Pretty Inc.(BPI), was founded by Bianca Williams in 2011. Bianca wanted to design clothing for the curvy woman and the garments had to hold a woman to style, elegance and grace. Her aim was ready to wear and to make every curvy woman feel like their garment flatters their curves.  Her designs had to be fashion forward, trendy, and sexy all at the same time. BPI carries garments for a curvy woman's any occasion, from work attire to a night out on the town. 

The featured designers of the evening include

Stassi Designs First Collection
Tracy Lynn Jewelry Display
Sonja Freeman Singing Performance
Stassi Designs Second Collection
710 Designs Collection
Karlene Lindsay Designs
Finale – B. Pretty Inc. Signature Collection

Here are some of my favorites looks from the aforementioned Designers.. Enjoy!!

(There are so many models whose name I do not know.. Please find me on FB at facebook.com/XponentialCurveBlog and drop me a line so I can add your name!! Thanks!!)

Myself Facebook.com/XponentialCurveBlog

Tanisha Frazier!!!!

Sue Blackwood!!!!




Ask Mocha!!!


Andrea Scotland!!!

A'ndrea!!!!



Annoula Smile!!!

April!!!





Sue Blackwood!!

Techla!!!


Annoula!!!

 

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Poised and "Provocative Curves" 365 day Calendar of The Curvy Ambassador - Curvy Cori!!!!



Poised and Provocative?!!! Can we really have the best of both worlds?? By the looks of the Provocative Curves 365 Days a Year Calendar of the GORGEOUS Curvy Cori, I'm going to go on and give and emphatic YEESSSSS!!! Curves seen in American mainstream media in something as basic as a bra and panty set has been voiced to be "Vulgar" based on the voluptuous nature of our bodies where critics conveniently forget the plethora of sexually charged images and innuendo supplied daily via Victoria Secret Commercials or Herbal Essence ode to organically driven orgasms. I'm not really getting what the hubbub is all about.. Do our Busty Bodies and Well Rounded hips not need Bras and Panties offering support comfort and the feel of sexy and more importantly do we not need to see REAL women with Curves representing us in the media? I'm not the only one who believes there is such a thing as being Curvy, Sexy and Classy am I?!.....

 
 
"We, Plus/Full Figured women should realistically be represented in the PLUS section of Victoria Secret or Frederick's of Hollywood and participate in their high profile fashions shows. But we're not - well at least not in the accurate measures. I want to break down several barriers and potentially that is one of them."
 
I knew I wasn't....
 
So now, what happens when you have a Confidently Curvy Beauty who isn't afraid to push the boundaries... One who navigates herself by utilizing her Brains as equally as her Beauty?? The answer is Stunning images ranging from Erotic to Editorial with a vast appeal to BOTH SEXES...  SCORE!!! Visually Captivating in both Form and Function, I Bring the International Curvy World of Curvy Models Rock a sneak peak at one of the most sought after Calendars of 2014!!!

 
 
 With Curvy Cori's Bachelor's Degree in Communication Studies, emphasizing in Public Relations, Master's Degree in Human Resources Development and Post Baccalaureate Certificate in Management and Leadership its a NO BRAINER this starlet is destined to model amongst the Curvy greats. Granddaughter of Muhammad Ali's Boxing Trainer, Wali Muhammad Cori's destiny seems to have been written in the stars for her long before even stepping on the model scene. I been following Cori's career for a while now and when I tell you this Calendar is definitely what the curvy community needs to bridge the gap between showing feminine sexiness, fashion and women empowerment... well let's just say you're just going to have to get your copy so you can see exactly what I'm talking about.. Trust me Guys and Gals, You will NOT be disappointed.

 
 
Cury Cori's Spirit radiates as brilliantly as her Smile,  having participated in several Charity Events which include Ray Lewis (NFL- Baltimore Ravens Linebacker) Turkey Giveaway; Keon Lattimore (Ray Lewis's Brother) Turkey Giveaway, Walking for a Cause Event (Fashion Show Dedicated to Mothers that lost children to street violence); and the recent  Beauty with a Pure Purpose Event - for women with Cancer and Alopecia; where we were officially acquainted.

Cori Walking in Sebastian Threadz for the Beauty With Pure Purpose Runway Show/Benefit
 
Partnering with American Heart Association The Curvy Ambassador will be donating proceeds generated from The 2014 Provocative CURVES 365 Days a Year to this wonderful cause.
 
"I decided to partner with the American Heart Association because in former generations, women in my family were touched with heart disease and I want to assist with fighting this critical ailment."
 
The 2014 Provocative CURVES 365 Days a Year Calendar is currently on sale and can be ordered on www.curvycori.com. I'm super syked to announce that for every 200 calendars sold the Promotion currently running with this daily dose of beauty is the opportunity to WIN NFL tickets to YOUR favorite football team's game, a LapTop Computer, or a 32" flat screen TV!!! Say What?!!! That's marketing magnificence if you ask me!!!

 
 
There really is something in this calendar for everyone. If you love Fashion, Appreciate Form, Love NFL or just want to know your money is being well spent by contributing to an amazing cause then you need to order your copy TODAY!!!
 
"This calendar is one that everyone should have because it showcases the diversity that PLUS women are capable of embodying. We as PLUS women should not be cornered into just commercial print because we have the capability of showcasing and dominating many areas in this modeling world and this calendar shows that. It ranges from extremely erotically sexy to the commercial side of the spectrum and I am EXTREMELY proud of this product. It's classy, elegant, and tasteful. It's just top notch!!!"

You can stay in contact with The Curvy Ambassador by visiting  www.CurvyCori.com
Facebook: Facebook.com/CurvyCori
Twitter: @CurvyCori
Instagram: @CurvyCori
Booking: Booking@CurvyCori.com
Media Inquiry: MNSMedia@Gmail.com or Info@CurvyCori.com
 

 
 

 

Tuesday, October 8, 2013

Nothing Worth Having Easy.... Beauty with Pure Purpose Fundraiser and Runway Show



Every morning when we wake up we are the survivor. We are blessed enough to be granted another day, even if that day holds adversity or trauma within its confines. French Philosopher Albert Camus says "The Struggle itself towards the Heights is Enough to fill a man's Heart.. One must imagine Sisyphus Happy" This is one of my favorite quotes because it suggest we understand the value of purpose within motivation towards success. What really drives us day in and day out is up to the individual and my understanding is when we correlate success with better understanding and compassion for all people and factors involved, we show great strength of character. How Blessed and Humble was when Ernest Jackson of MNS Media asked me to participate in the NYFW Fundraiser/Runway show on behalf of Beauty with Pure Purpose, focused on bringing awareness to Cancer and Alopecia survivors, hosted by Hip Hop Legend and Cancer Survivor Roxanne Shante.
MC for the evening and Hip Hop Legend Roxanne Shante pictured with FBM Editor and Chief Mello Evron Andrews
 
This Blog is dedicated to those who use their legacy to bring solutions in support of those in need.. More specifically I dedicate this blog to Cancer Survivor, CEO and President of Beauty with Pure Purpose, Dana Roberts Ross as well as Fellow Model and Breast Cancer Survivor Suzette Michelle, both women whom have won me over with their light and undying warrior spirit in the fight to stop the loss of another life due to Cancer.

Suzette Michelle in her warrior pose post Breast Cancer photoshoot with @Curvysta @truemodelmgt and @Dougswaim
 
 
The Sunday morning of the Beauty with Pure Purpose Fundraiser and Fashion show was serene.. I managed to get up early, do my hair, pack my suitcase with my shapewear shoes and head out the door in good timing listening to some of my favorite tracks on the way downtown. I was syked to be walking for such a great cause at the Metropolitan Pavillion because from what I saw on Google the space just looked amazing and I knew I would get to see some of my model favs Curvy Chic Fitness Charity Lynette, Yum Yum, Ask Mocha and Full Blossom Mello Fellow Face Michelle Hilton and finally get to meet my now mentor, Curvaciously Yours Olga Gonzales-Ramos. Upon arrival I chat it up with my girls and make some new connections with Diva Curvy Cory Quinn (Be on the lookout for my blog about her upcoming calendar... sneak preview shows it to be HOT) and Model/Designer Rhonda Jones Carter. Wig Designer Empryss Heyward was also present showcasing her intricate wigs which she created for this special event and women affected by loss of hair through Chemotherapy and Alopecia. For more information on how you can view and purchase her wigs please visit Beauty with Pure Purpose
 
Designer Sebastian Threadz was fitting, snipping, synching and tucking their amazing garments to perfection, ensuring their runway portion went off without a hitch. I myself was fitted in an all off the shoulder dress with fringe around the neck and long sleeves with slits down the side.. This Dress Complimented my curves so effortlessly. I felt amazing walking down the runway and as you can see the necks they were-a-breakin!!! Go Me!! ; )
 
Myself, Nicole Flores, Strutting for Sebastian Threadz of California
 
Here are some more fabulous looks from the Sebastian Threadz Collection Featured during the Beauty with Pure Purpose Runway and Fashion Benefit. Photos Courtesy of Full Blossom Magazine
 
Model and CEO of Curvy Chic Fitness Charity Lynette

Super Plus Model and Reality TV Star of Nuvo TV's Curvy Girls, Ivory May

Face of Full Blossom Magazine Runway and Print Model Michelle Hilton
 Calendar Girl Runway and print model Curvy Cori Quinn
 

 Reality TV Star and Full Blossom Magazine Cover Girl Robin Kassner
 

Designer Runway and Print Model Rhonda Jones Carter

Gorgeous Runway Print Model Ask Mocha

Model, Photographer, Radio Personality, Advocate Melinda "YumYum" Bell 
 
 
There was so much support in the room for us Plus models. As I walked out the looks on everyone's face screamed of joy for us having been a part of the show in support for these causes leaving me with a feeling of genuine appreciation. The phenomenally classy and sophisticated brand Curvezz, who we all know I love soooo much, showed support for the Beauty with Pure Purpose show in their own way having sent me my second look for the night complete with accessories sent all the way from the Netherlands thanks to Designer and Visionary Nancy Herkul and Mica Oh of Peepers of Denmark. I received the dressed that previous Friday right before the Plus night Out Event and Fell in LOVE.. Can't you see why... The material is sound, jewel notes adorn the shoulder and simplicity in detailing found on this dress left me to feel classy and amazingly beautiful while conducting interviews on behalf of Full Blossom Magazine TV
Myself, Nicole Flores, Styled by Nancy Herkul of Curvezz
 
Upon stepping out in the dress I was immediately greeted by Daily Venus Diva Columnist/ Blogger Curvaciously Yours, Olga Gonzalez- Ramos and it was like I instantly met a sister. Her energy is truly dope I have to say. We got to talk for a brief moment and made a plan to have a more in depth conversation regarding future projects. She is making HUGE Movements when I tell you so I need you ALL to pay attention. I'm so excited for Olga as she will be representing plus models and Latinas during Puerto Rico Plus Week. I am so proud to be a Latina in this industry because we have women like Olga who represent us and fight for us to be seen heard and appreciated.. Love you Girl..
We finally meet!!!
 
With Photo ops and Interviews Conducted I had the pleasure of speaking with Brilliant Fashion Designer Marco Hall about his striking fashions and his crossover from standard size to plus size. The face of Marco Hall's Brand for the Plus Fashion World is Non Other that Suzette Michele who I mentioned is a cancer survivor earlier and honorary guest of the evening. Marco and I interview segued into my talking with Suzette Michelle.
 
With tears in her eyes because of all the love and support felt in the room, SURVIVOR Suzette Michelle, who was diagnosed 3/31/2008 with triple negative breast cancer having undergone a double mastectomy, lymph node dissection and reconstruction who  now by the grace of God is 6 years cancer free continues to use her Beauty with a Pure Purpose to educate and advocate. She is a woman of God and knows her survival is due to his grace. " I am a professional model, mother of 2 and business woman who loves The Lord and grateful for all that he has done and all he is going to do."
 
Here are some photos of Suzette Michelle wearing Marco Hall Designs during the Beauty with Pure Purpose Runway Show.. You know a Diva when you see one. Photos Courtesy of Full Blossom Magazine




 
As a model its one thing to walk in fashion and contribute to the success of a designers line, but to be a part of a greater cause while doing the thing you love most is the greatest feeling. Moving beyond the concept of self in what can be viewed as a self centered and ego driven occupation is a game changer. We all walked out of the Metropolitan Pavilion with pride in having used our Beauty for the Purest of Purpose... Saving Lives